
It Begins With You
The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life
HarperCollins · Print & ebook · January 14, 2025
THE INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES AND USA TODAY BESTSELLER Oprah Daily Best Self-Help Books for Personal Growth in 2025 – New York Post Best of the Month The beloved relationship coach, teacher, and host of the top relationship podcast Jillian on Love reveals nine core truths about love and self-acceptance and provides powerful self-healing techniques and strategies for heartbreak recovery to help us repair our relationship with ourselves and start building the rewarding relationships we deserve.
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- Who it’s for
- Straight talk on love, self-worth, and the habits that keep repeating.
- Genres
- Love & Romance, Building Self-Esteem, Dating
- Published
- HarperCollins, January 14, 2025
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THE INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES AND USA TODAY BESTSELLER Oprah Daily Best Self-Help Books for Personal Growth in 2025 – New York Post Best of the Month The beloved relationship coach, teacher, and host of the top relationship podcast Jillian on Love reveals nine core truths about love and self-acceptance and provides powerful self-healing techniques and strategies for heartbreak recovery to help us repair our relationship with ourselves and start building the rewarding relationships we deserve.
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Jillian Turecki’s holistic, compassionate, yet no-nonsense approach to love has attracted a devoted following of millions. In her highly anticipated debut book, she makes clear that if you want a meaningful relationship filled with connection, security, and emotional intimacy, you have to look within. The common denominator in all your relationships is you. Drawing from decades of experience helping clients overcome anxious attachment and self-sabotage to heal themselves and their relationships, It Begins with You introduces the 9 core truths we must accept in order to change our lives: - Truth 1: It begins with you. - Truth 2: The mind is a battlefield. - Truth 3: Lust is not the same thing as love. - Truth 4: You have to love yourself. - Truth 5: You must speak up and tell the truth. - Truth 6: You need to be your best self (even after the honeymoon). - Truth 7: You cannot convince someone to love you. - Truth 8: No one is coming to save you. - Truth 9: You must make peace with your parents. Blending therapeutic strategies, somatic techniques, client case studies, practical tools, tips, communication skills, and guiding questions, It Begins with You gives us a roadmap to finally start doing the work needed to love ourselves and find the love we deserve. It's never too late to choose yourself.
Clear-Eyed Love
Straight talk on love, self-worth, and the habits that keep repeating.
Come here for
- practical love advice
- clear-eyed relationship reset
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- nine hard truths
- direct, no-nonsense guidance
Where it sits
| Love & Romance | 68% |
|---|---|
| Building Self-Esteem | 37% |
| Dating | 20% |
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Publisher categories
- Love & Romance
- Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships
- Dating
- Inspiration & Personal Growth
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- Emotions
- Mental Health
- The Pursuit of Happiness
- Getting Motivated
- Authors
- Jillian Turecki, HarperOne
- Publisher
- HarperCollins
- Published
- January 14, 2025
- Format
- Print & ebook
- Reading lane
- Love & Romance