Ties That Bind, Ties That Break by Lensey Namioka

Ties That Bind, Ties That Break

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Lensey Namioka

Random House Children's Books · Paperback · November 14, 2000

Third Sister in the Tao family, Ailin has watched her two older sisters go through the painful process of having their feet bound.

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Who it’s for
A historical coming-of-age story about personal freedom, family expectations, and the cost of refusing tradition.
Themes
Foot binding and tradition, Women's independence, Family and social pressure
Genres
Historical YA - Asia, YA Stories About Girls & Women, Coming of Age

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Third Sister in the Tao family, Ailin has watched her two older sisters go through the painful process of having their feet bound. In China in 1911, all the women of good families follow this ancient tradition. But Ailin loves to run away from her governess and play games with her male cousins. Knowing she will never run again once her feet are bound, Ailin rebels and refuses to follow this torturous tradition.

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As a result, however, the family of her intended husband breaks their marriage agreement. And as she enters adolescence, Ailin finds that her family is no longer willing to support her. Chinese society leaves few options for a single woman of good family, but with a bold conviction and an indomitable spirit, Ailin is determined to forge her own destiny. Her story is a tribute to all those women whose courage created new options for the generations who came after them.

Choosing Her Own Way

A historical coming-of-age story about personal freedom, family expectations, and the cost of refusing tradition.

Come here for

  • A young heroine’s spirited refusal to accept a painful custom
  • A window onto women’s choices in early twentieth-century China

Expect

  • A family conflict shaped by tradition and marriage expectations
  • A determined path toward making a life on her own terms

Where it sits

Historical YA - Asia99%
YA Stories About Girls & Women66%
Coming of Age41%

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Publisher categories

  • Coming of Age
  • Historical YA - Asia
  • Finding Your Footing
Authors
Lensey Namioka
Publisher
Random House Children's Books
Published
November 14, 2000
Format
Paperback
Theme
Foot binding and tradition · Women's independence · Family and social pressure
Reading lane
Coming of Age