Necessary Losses by Judith Viorst

Necessary Losses

The Loves Illusions Dependencies and Impossible Expectations That All of US Have

Judith Viorst

Simon & Schuster · Print & ebook · January 5, 1998

From grief and mourning to aging and relationships, poet and Redbook contributor Judith Viorst presents a thoughtful and researched study in this examination of love, loss, and letting go.

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Who it’s for
For when you want insight into attachment, loss, and the hard business of becoming yourself.
Genres
Grief & Loss, Relationships
Published
Simon & Schuster, January 5, 1998

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From grief and mourning to aging and relationships, poet and Redbook contributor Judith Viorst presents a thoughtful and researched study in this examination of love, loss, and letting go. Drawing on psychoanalysis, literature, and personal experience, Necessary Losses is a philosophy for understanding and accepting life’s inevitabilities.

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In Necessary Losses, Judith Viorst turns her considerable talents to a serious and far-reaching subject: how we grow and change through the losses that are a certain and necessary part of life. She argues persuasively that through the loss of our mothers’ protection, the loss of the impossible expectations we bring to relationships, the loss of our younger selves, and the loss of our loved ones through separation and death, we gain deeper perspective, true maturity, and fuller wisdom about life. She has written a book that is both life affirming and life changing.

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For when you want insight into attachment, loss, and the hard business of becoming yourself.

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  • clear-eyed take on growing up, loving, and letting go
  • psychology with a humane, unsentimental edge

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  • layered reflection, not quick fixes
  • plainspoken guidance with real emotional weight

Where it sits

Grief & Loss72%
Relationships27%

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Publisher categories

  • Grief & Loss
  • Getting Motivated
Authors
Judith Viorst
Publisher
Simon & Schuster
Published
January 5, 1998
Format
Print & ebook
Reading lane
Grief & Loss