Before I Forget by Tory Henwood Hoen

Before I Forget

A Novel

Tory Henwood Hoen

St. Martin's Press · Print & ebook · December 2, 2025

"A tender, funny portrait of love in its myriad forms." —Mikki Brammer, bestselling author of The Collected Regrets of Clover A funny, heartfelt, late coming-of-age story that examines the role of memory in holding us back—and in moving us forward—for fans of The Collected Regrets of Clover and Maame.

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Who it’s for
A warm, lightly playful read where coping and grief stay intimately tangled.
Genres
Coming-of-Age, Family Life, Grief & Loss
Published
St. Martin's Press, December 2, 2025

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About this book

"A tender, funny portrait of love in its myriad forms." —Mikki Brammer, bestselling author of The Collected Regrets of Clover A funny, heartfelt, late coming-of-age story that examines the role of memory in holding us back—and in moving us forward—for fans of The Collected Regrets of Clover and Maame. Call it inertia. Call it a quarter-life crisis. Whatever you call it, Cricket Campbell is stuck.

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Despite working at a zeitgeisty wellness company, the 26-year-old feels anything but well. Still adrift after a tragedy that upended her world a decade ago, she has entered early adulthood under the weight of a new burden: her father’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis. When Cricket’s older sister Nina announces it is time to move Arthur from his beloved Adirondack lake house into a memory-care facility, Cricket has a better idea. In returning home to become her father’s caretaker, she hopes to repair their strained relationship and shake herself out of her perma-funk. But even deeply familiar places can hold surprises. As Cricket settles back into the family house at Catwood Pond—a place she once loved, but hasn’t visited since she was a teenager—she discovers that her father possesses a rare gift: as he loses his grasp of the past, he is increasingly able to predict the future. Before long, Arthur cements his reputation as an unlikely oracle, but for Cricket, believing in her father’s prophecies might also mean facing the most painful parts of her history. As she begins to remember who she once was, she uncovers a vital truth: the path forward often starts by going back. With laugh-out-loud humor and profound grace, Before I Forget explores the nuances of family, the complexities of memory, and how sometimes, the people we know the best are the ones who surprise us the most.

Why It Clicks

A warm, lightly playful read where coping and grief stay intimately tangled.

Come here for

  • warm, playful emotional register
  • resilience with grief close to the surface

Expect

  • sustained narrative momentum
  • an emotional rather than plot-first pull

Where it sits

Coming-of-Age61%
Family Life41%
Grief & Loss34%

Percentages are BookFrontier’s reading of the book.

Publisher categories

  • Coming-of-Age
  • Women's Fiction
  • Family Life
Authors
Tory Henwood Hoen
Publisher
St. Martin's Press
Published
December 2, 2025
Format
Print & ebook
Reading lane
Coming-of-Age