Reasons to Hate Me by Susan Metallo

Reasons to Hate Me

Susan Metallo

Candlewick Press · Hardcover · September 2, 2025

"Metallo crafts interesting and realistic teens and adults, and offers a unique and nuanced view of an autistic teen experiencing high school." —Publishers Weekly (starred review) A hilarious and heartfelt novel about a neurodivergent theater nerd that tackles slut-shaming, what it means to be a friend, and the power of forgiving others—and yourself.

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Who it’s for
A warm, playful read that leans into performance, friendship, and teen feeling.
Genres
YA Neurodiversity, Friendship for Teens, YA LGBTQ+
Published
Candlewick Press, September 2, 2025

About this book

"Metallo crafts interesting and realistic teens and adults, and offers a unique and nuanced view of an autistic teen experiencing high school." —Publishers Weekly (starred review) A hilarious and heartfelt novel about a neurodivergent theater nerd that tackles slut-shaming, what it means to be a friend, and the power of forgiving others—and yourself.

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There are countless good reasons to hate seventeen-year-old Jess Lanza, Stone Bridge High’s premier autistic theater nerd and Champion of Questionable Life Choices. Unfortunately, the cyberbullies that hounded her all summer are stuck on last year’s life-ruining mistake, the one that earned Jess the title “Boyfriend Stealing Slutbag.” To relieve the bullies of their stale content, Jess vows to dazzle them with online posts about her own ridiculous fails and embarrassing character traits. But somehow, all of Jess’s posts circle back to her friendship with Chloe—the friendship her alleged sluttiness pulverized—and the gaping hole she left in Jess’s life. As Jess chases Chloe’s forgiveness, she must confront some of her darkest weaknesses—and darker still, the truth of what happened with Chloe’s boyfriend, a story neither of them wants to hear. Told through a series of blog posts and short scripts, this cleverly staged and structured debut novel crackles with spot-on dialogue, features a range of fully developed neurodiverse characters, and sharply evokes high school in all its hilarious and agonizing complexity.

What Clicks

A warm, playful read that leans into performance, friendship, and teen feeling.

Come here for

  • playful teen-voice energy
  • friendship and romance in a staged, immersive register

Expect

  • an easy, sustained narrative rhythm
  • emotion with a light theatrical pulse

Where it sits

Friendship for Teens65%
YA Neurodiversity62%
YA LGBTQ+44%

Percentages are BookFrontier’s reading of the book.

Publisher categories

  • Dating & Sex for Teens
  • Friendship for Teens
  • YA Neurodiversity
Authors
Susan Metallo
Publisher
Candlewick Press
Published
September 2, 2025
Format
Hardcover
Reading lane
Dating & Sex for Teens