
Reasons to Hate Me
Candlewick Press · Hardcover · September 2, 2025
"Metallo crafts interesting and realistic teens and adults, and offers a unique and nuanced view of an autistic teen experiencing high school." —Publishers Weekly (starred review) A hilarious and heartfelt novel about a neurodivergent theater nerd that tackles slut-shaming, what it means to be a friend, and the power of forgiving others—and yourself.
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- Who it’s for
- A warm, playful read that leans into performance, friendship, and teen feeling.
- Genres
- YA Neurodiversity, Friendship for Teens, YA LGBTQ+
- Published
- Candlewick Press, September 2, 2025
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"Metallo crafts interesting and realistic teens and adults, and offers a unique and nuanced view of an autistic teen experiencing high school." —Publishers Weekly (starred review) A hilarious and heartfelt novel about a neurodivergent theater nerd that tackles slut-shaming, what it means to be a friend, and the power of forgiving others—and yourself.
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There are countless good reasons to hate seventeen-year-old Jess Lanza, Stone Bridge High’s premier autistic theater nerd and Champion of Questionable Life Choices. Unfortunately, the cyberbullies that hounded her all summer are stuck on last year’s life-ruining mistake, the one that earned Jess the title “Boyfriend Stealing Slutbag.” To relieve the bullies of their stale content, Jess vows to dazzle them with online posts about her own ridiculous fails and embarrassing character traits. But somehow, all of Jess’s posts circle back to her friendship with Chloe—the friendship her alleged sluttiness pulverized—and the gaping hole she left in Jess’s life. As Jess chases Chloe’s forgiveness, she must confront some of her darkest weaknesses—and darker still, the truth of what happened with Chloe’s boyfriend, a story neither of them wants to hear. Told through a series of blog posts and short scripts, this cleverly staged and structured debut novel crackles with spot-on dialogue, features a range of fully developed neurodiverse characters, and sharply evokes high school in all its hilarious and agonizing complexity.
What Clicks
A warm, playful read that leans into performance, friendship, and teen feeling.
Come here for
- playful teen-voice energy
- friendship and romance in a staged, immersive register
Expect
- an easy, sustained narrative rhythm
- emotion with a light theatrical pulse
Where it sits
| Friendship for Teens | 65% |
|---|---|
| YA Neurodiversity | 62% |
| YA LGBTQ+ | 44% |
Percentages are BookFrontier’s reading of the book.
Publisher categories
- Dating & Sex for Teens
- Friendship for Teens
- YA Neurodiversity
- Authors
- Susan Metallo
- Publisher
- Candlewick Press
- Published
- September 2, 2025
- Format
- Hardcover
- Reading lane
- Dating & Sex for Teens