Start with high-confidence men's studies books, then narrow by subgenre or adjacent topics.
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Robert A. Johnson
King, Warrior, Magician, Lover
Robert Moore, Doug Gillette
The Will to Change
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No More Mr Nice Guy
Robert A. Glover
Of Boys and Men
Richard V. Reeves
The Last Men
Charles Cornish-Dale
The Way of the Superior Man
David Deida
Notes on Being a Man
Scott Galloway
