Start with high-confidence pastoral counseling books, then narrow by subgenre or adjacent topics.
When God Weeps
Joni Eareckson Tada, Steve Estes
Quick Scripture Reference for Counseling Women
Patricia A. Miller
The Intimate Mystery
Dan B. Allender, Tremper Longman III
Embodied Hope
Kelly M. Kapic
Real Marriage
Grace Driscoll, Mark Driscoll
Married for God
Christopher Ash
Parenting
Paul David Tripp
Marriage
Leading With a Limp
Dan B. Allender