Facing Codependence by Pia Mellody

Facing Codependence

What It Is, Where It Comes From, How It Sabotages Our Lives

Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells Miller, J. Keith Miller

HarperCollins · Print & ebook · April 29, 2003

The groundbreaking bestseller on codependence—with more 750,000 copies sold—break the cycle, heal from past trauma, form fulfilling relationships, save your self-worth, and develop lasting, healthy habits and behavioral patterns In Facing Codependence, Pia Mellody, internationally renowned expert on codependence and addiction recovery, decodes and identifies codependent thinking, emotions, and behavior and provides a proven roadmap to recovery.

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Who it’s for
A recovery-focused look at codependent behavior, its childhood roots, and the work of healing.
Themes
Codependence and recovery, Childhood trauma and healing, Secure relationships
Genres
Breaking Codependency, Growing Up with Addiction, Addiction & Recovery

About this book

The groundbreaking bestseller on codependence—with more 750,000 copies sold—break the cycle, heal from past trauma, form fulfilling relationships, save your self-worth, and develop lasting, healthy habits and behavioral patterns In Facing Codependence, Pia Mellody, internationally renowned expert on codependence and addiction recovery, decodes and identifies codependent thinking, emotions, and behavior and provides a proven roadmap to recovery.

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For anyone who has been in a toxic relationship, engages in self-sabotaging behaviors themselves, or simply wants to be a better partner, and person, Facing Codependence dives into the core of human behavior and allows readers to: · End toxic patterns, including love addiction, narcissism, alcoholism, and substance abuse · Heal from dysfunctional family dynamics and end the cycle of abuse once and for all · Ditch anxious and avoidant attachment to form stable and secure relationships · Rediscover your sense of purpose, self-worth, and reclaim your identity and independence Mellody simultaneously sets forth five primary adult symptoms of this crippling condition, then traces their origin to emotional, spiritual, intellectual, physical, and sexual abuses that occur in childhood. Central to Mellody's approach is the concept that the codependent adult's injured inner child needs healing. Recovery from codependence, therefore, involves clearing up the toxic emotions left over from these painful childhood experiences. Unlearning behavioral patterns and easing the grip of trauma takes time and effort, but right here, right now, is where you start.

Patterns and Origins

A recovery-focused look at codependent behavior, its childhood roots, and the work of healing.

Come here for

  • Language for recognizing codependent thoughts, feelings, and behaviors
  • A framework connecting adult patterns with childhood experiences

Expect

  • Attention to self-worth, identity, and relationship habits
  • A candid reminder that changing ingrained patterns takes time

Where it sits

Breaking Codependency100%
Growing Up with Addiction23%
Addiction & Recovery20%

Percentages are BookFrontier’s reading of the book.

Publisher categories

  • Family Conflict Resolution
  • Divorce & Separation
  • Love & Romance
  • Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships
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  • Dysfunctional Families
  • Men's Health
  • Relationships
  • Mental Health
Authors
Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells Miller, J. Keith Miller
Publisher
HarperCollins
Published
April 29, 2003
Format
Print & ebook
Theme
Codependence and recovery · Childhood trauma and healing · Secure relationships
Reading lane
Family Conflict Resolution