The Girl With Three Birthdays by Patti Eddington

The Girl With Three Birthdays

An Adopted Daughter's Memoir of Tiaras, Tough Truths, and Tall Tales

Patti Eddington

She Writes Press · Print & ebook · May 7, 2024

Patti Eddington always knew she was adopted, and her beloved parents seemed amenable enough to questions—but she never wanted to hurt them by expressing curiosity, so she didn’t.

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Who it’s for
A family-history search turns long-held assumptions into questions worth sitting with.
Genres
Adoption & Fostering, Personal Memoirs, Family History & Genealogy
Published
She Writes Press, May 7, 2024

About this book

Patti Eddington always knew she was adopted, and her beloved parents seemed amenable enough to questions—but she never wanted to hurt them by expressing curiosity, so she didn’t. The story of her mother cutting off and dying her hair when she was a toddler? She thought it was eccentric and funny, nothing more. When she discovered at fifteen that her birthday wasn’t actually her birthday?

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She believed it when her mother said she’d changed it to protect her from the “nosy old biddies” who might try to discover her identity. It wasn’t until decades later, when a genealogy test led Patti to her biological family (including an aunt with a shocking story) and the discovery of yet another birthday, that she really began to integrate what she thought she knew about her origins. Determined to know the truth, she finally petitioned a court to unseal records that had been locked up for almost sixty years—and began to put the pieces of her past together, bit by painstaking bit. Framed by a brief but poignant 1963 “Report of Investigation” based on a caseworker’s one-day visit to Patti’s childhood home, The Girl With Three Birthdays tells the story of an adoptee who always believed she was the answer to a couple’s seventeen-year journey to become parents, until a manila envelope from a rural county court arrived and caused her to question . . . everything.

Origins Reconsidered

A family-history search turns long-held assumptions into questions worth sitting with.

Come here for

  • Adoption, identity, and family stories that don't quite add up

Expect

  • A decades-long search through genealogy and sealed records
  • Tender family ties alongside unsettling discoveries

Where it sits

Family History & Genealogy86%
Adoption & Fostering72%
Personal Memoirs71%

Percentages are BookFrontier’s reading of the book.

Publisher categories

  • Women's Lives
  • Adoption & Fostering
  • Facing Prejudice & Bias
  • Multicultural Families
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  • Family History & Genealogy
Authors
Patti Eddington
Publisher
She Writes Press
Published
May 7, 2024
Format
Print & ebook
Reading lane
Women's Lives