Sorry My Mental Illness Isn't Sexy Enough for You
Lessons on Living With Personality Disorders and Mental Illness (that We Learned the Hard Way)
Jessica Kingsley Publishers · Print & ebook · October 21, 2025
We've all seen the prettied-up image of mental illness.
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- Who it’s for
- Katja Pavlovna and Kay Garbett share hard-won lessons on living with personality disorders and mental illness.
- Genres
- Personality Disorders, Mental Health
- Published
- Jessica Kingsley Publishers, October 21, 2025
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We've all seen the prettied-up image of mental illness. That movie-perfect, 'single artful tear', 'gazing wistfully out of the window' situation that conveniently disappears when you need to do the laundry. Well, life with a personality disorder isn't like that. At all. Katja Pavlovna and Kay Garbett have been there, wading through stigma, discrimination, and all the worst bits of mental illnesses that people don't like to talk about.
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In this candid guide, they share the lessons they learned the hard way, to help you tackle everything from labels and disclosure to working with medical professionals and maintaining relationships. Whether you're newly diagnosed, have been living with a personality disorder for years, or are supporting someone who is, this book will help you to make it through the unsexy bits and build a solid strategy to make it work.
Labels and Disclosure
Katja Pavlovna and Kay Garbett share hard-won lessons on living with personality disorders and mental illness.
Come here for
- Lessons on labels and disclosure
- Guidance on working with medical professionals and maintaining relationships
Expect
- Candid discussion of stigma and discrimination
- Practical guidance for making a strategy work
Where it sits
| Personality Disorders | 98% |
|---|---|
| Mental Health | 59% |
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Publisher categories
- Mental Health
- Personality Disorders
- Authors
- Kay Garbett, Katja Pavlovna, Peter Tyrer
- Publisher
- Jessica Kingsley Publishers
- Published
- October 21, 2025
- Format
- Print & ebook
- Reading lane
- Mental Health