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Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible by Sabrina Alexis Bendory

Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible

Sabrina Alexis Bendory

Thought Catalog Books · Paperback · September 9, 2025

A transformative guide for anyone who feels stuck in patterns of self-sabotage, overthinking, or settling for less - especially in relationships.

Building Self-EsteemLove & RomanceBreaking Codependencypersonal development
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Who it’s for
Readers interested in overcoming self-sabotage and improving relationships
Themes
self-healing, emotional detachment, personal empowerment
Pacing
Reflective

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About this book

A transformative guide for anyone who feels stuck in patterns of self-sabotage, overthinking, or settling for less - especially in relationships. Whether you're anxiously attached and constantly chasing love, emotionally unavailable and afraid to let anyone in, or simply tired of abandoning yourself to be chosen, this book will help you break the cycle.

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Through a blend of personal stories, psychology, and deeply practical tools, relationship coach Sabrina Bendory shows you how to stop tying your worth to other people's approval, release the fear of being alone, and reconnect with the most powerful, grounded version of yourself.

Who it’s for

  • Readers interested in overcoming self-sabotage and improving relationships
  • Individuals seeking practical psychological tools for personal growth

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Love & Romance41%
Breaking Codependency35%
Building Self-Esteem35%

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Publisher categories

  • Self-Help
Authors
Sabrina Alexis Bendory
Publisher
Thought Catalog Books
Published
September 9, 2025
Format
Paperback
Theme
self-healing · emotional detachment · personal empowerment
Reading lane
Self-Help